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Sunday, 14 October 2007

Minutes of the YF Business Meeting - 14 October 2007

YF Business Meeting

 

14 October 2007, via Skype

 

Present:

Ben Watts, Thomas Watts, Julian Carver, Jimmy Green, Thomas Owen, Hannah Newport

 

1. YF Bank Account:

We have consulted with Yearly Meeting Tresurer Elizabeth Duke about setting up a YF Bank Account. We have decided the account will be called Aotearoa New Zealand Young Friends Meeting. The account will be with Kiwibank. The account will initially have 2 signatories who will be Julian Carver and Jimmy Green. We will add further signatories as required. The account will only require one signature to pay bills.

 

2. YF Camp 2008:

We have been advised that Leith Pugmire and Avon Lookmire are no longer able to help organise YF Camp 2008. Ben Watts has agreed to co-ordinate the organisation of next years camp. The first priority is to secure a venue which we will need to achieve by the end of November.

 

3. Summer Gathering:

Sarah Tailby - who is organising the Summer Gathering programme - has approached Young Friends to ask if we could present a session at Summer Gathering. We feel that YFs will not be in a position to give a presentation as a group, but if individual YF's are keen to run a session we will encourage them to do so.

 

We wish to actively encourage YF's to attend this years Gathering. Sarah has indicated that there are many events and activites that will require supervision. We will put a proposal to the Summer Gathering Organising Committee to see if we can organise a 'work for assistance with fees' arrangement.

 

We ask that from the beginning, the proposal be clear as to the expectations on the Young Friends who wish to take up the offer.

 

4. Summer Gathering Fundraising:

Sarah Tailby has advised us that there will be room to run a YF coffee fundraising venture if we choose to. Julian Carver will co-ordinate with Joanne Hall as to whether hiring a coffee machine is a viable option.

We are keen to see this as an outreach activity which could involve displays of YF activities etc.

 

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Sunday, 12 August 2007

Young Friends Business Meeting - 12 August 2007

The meeting was held by Skype between Christchurch, Wellington and Auckland

Clerk: Thomas Watts
Co Clerk: Julian Carver

Participants: Ben Watts,  Bridie Zwanikken, Charlotte Gordon, Hannah Newport, Jim Green, Julian Carver, Thomas Watts

  1. We put forward the name of Hannah Newport as the YF Representative to Australia YF camp and Yearly Meeting. We encourage Chris Hall to attend if he wishes to go independently, and will consider providing some financial assistance if he does choose to go. (Hannah absented herself from the meeting during the discussion of this minute)
  2. We put forward the name of John Graham to be the YF rep to the Historic Peace Churches Conference subject to his consent.
  3. We ask Jimmy Green and Julian Carver to liaise with the Yearly Meeting Treasurer to set up a bank account for Young Friends. We will have two signatories for the account. All expenditure and reimbursements will be agreed at a YF Business Meeting prior to payment.
  4. We agree to move the YF Blog to the same server as the Quaker web site. We will retain the same conditions regarding not linking from the Quaker web site and not having the blog indexed by Google.
  5. We will hold YF business meetings every two months. The next YF business meeting will be on 21st October.

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Thursday, 14 June 2007

Minutes from YF Committee Conference Call

YF Committee Meeting:

 

Conference Call 20th May 2007

 

Present: Thomas Watts, Ben Watts, Julian Carver and Jimmy Green.

 

  1. We have agreed to support Sarah Tailby in attending Britain Young Friends General Meeting, a course on Spiritual Friendship at Woodbrooke Study Centre and a Young Friends Weekend at Pardshaw in October 2007. We agree to cover the attendance costs of these events. We ask Sarah to provide a written report on her trip and to be available for verbal reports and presentations to Young Friends and Monthly Meetings if required. We hope that this journey will aid Sarah in continuing to make an ongoing contribution to the Young Friends.

 

Julian will write a letter of support to Sarah, which will accompany what Sarah sends to STAC.

 

  1. We agree to use the Young Friends Committee money to get the committee to Yearly Meeting and support other Young Friends’ attendance.

 

  1. We recognise the importance of getting a large contingent of Young Friends at Yearly Meeting, especially at the Young Friends session. We note that some Young Friends will be unable to attend all of Yearly Meeting, so it will be important to establish when the Young Friends session will take place.   

 

Thomas to liase with Bill Robinson in regards to the timetabling of the Young Friends session at Yearly Meeting.

 

  

The committee agreed to meet again mid-June to discuss the Yearly Meeting session.

 

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Thursday, 17 May 2007

Living up to our Statement on Environmental Sustainability

At YF Camp we agreed to write an article to go in ANZ Friends Newsletter to support our Minute to YM... this is the draft so far. Please do comment, suggest alterations etc and also say if it 'speaks your mind', especially if you weren't actually at Camp, we want to be as representative of as many YFs as possible. love & light Anna

Living up to our Statement on Environmental Sustainability

Yearly Meeting issued a Statement on Environmental Sustainability in 2000. Since then much has changed in the world and the issue of climate change looms large over us all yet little action appears to be taking place.

Changing our habits to live up to the Sustainability Statement has been very much left to individuals rather than being embraced collectively by our worshipping communities. Despite having ownership and responsibility for a substantial number of buildings and annually holding events in many others we have no practical guidelines as to how we can best fulfil the expectations laid out in the statement.

At the Young Friends Camp Easter 2007 a group gathered to discuss climate change and environmental sustainability, within Quakers and our wider communities. Focusing on our Camp’s own ‘carbon footprint’ as an example of the negative environmental impact our activities have, we were moved to formulate action to help change our unsustainable practices. We produced guidelines on Sustainability for the organisation and planning of future Young Friends camps and events. This Camp has been ‘carbon neutralised’ as best we could both by offsetting our carbon footprint through financial donation (www.carbonzero.co.nz) and making a concerted effort to reduce our footprint initially, especially with regard to transport.

We are concerned about the lack of consistent corporate sustainable practice within the Quaker community. ‘Green housekeeping’ of our buildings is often left to individuals to take on board and no guidelines are in place for those unfamiliar with what might be possible. Events committees are left each time to consider (or not) the environmental impact surrounding the organisation, programme and transport and how that might be addressed.

We believe that Yearly Meeting should lead the way by asking all the MMs and gathering organising committees to fulfil certain obligations and give space for discussion of this at Yearly Meeting. This is not something that can be fixed overnight so we hope that it would be an ongoing concern and not something that comes up once and then forgotten about.

Many of our buildings are used by non-Quaker groups – our buildings can be seen as representative of our views and beliefs. By use of green housekeeping products etc we not only help the environment but outwardly show our commitment to others. We would like YM to either find a way forward to produce a YM policy on green housekeeping or ask MMs to establish their own. This would be an ongoing process to be developed over time rather than a static statement. Carbon neutral electricity is now available and we hope that all Meetings would be encouraged to use this and it become standard practice for all Quaker owned buildings.

In our exploration of our carbon footprint we discovered one of the major impacts on the world was the eating of mass produced meat. We ask that events organisors consider how a vegetarian menu would considerably reduce our communal ecological footprint, enabling us to ‘be patterns and examples’ of our statement towards sustainability. Not only would this addresses the ecological footprint but also supports our testimony to simplicity (and reduces the stress for the cooks!).

We have established a working group to investigate the possibility of combining Young Friends Outreach initiatives with the cause of sustainability, to produce practical aids for people to reduce their consumption while simultaneously raising consciousness on climate change and awareness of the values held by the Society of Friends. The convenors of this group are Thomas Owen and Thomas Watts.

We look forward to the opportunity to discussing these issues with those present at Yearly Meeting. If anyone has any particular questions or comments meanwhile they can be sent to the convenors via yf.clerk@quaker.org.nz

(revised version 3!)

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[ben] I think overall it's rather good! a couple things though, 1. I found the 4th paragraph really dense. Can I suggest we loose "We discussed climate change and how we as individuals and as a group can address this issue.". I think it could do without it. 2. Speaking of loosing words. I can tell you that it is about 150 words too big for a single page in the newsletter. So unless you want the newsletter people to hack it down for you, I suggest major editing. Sorry.. no suggestions of where to start ... i just think spacially :) (05/17/07)

anna d revised version 2 now above... <p> still working on a slash and burn job wordwise Ben, any other comments? (05/18/07)

Julian I think this is really well written, and will be a powerful statement to the rest of NZ Quakers. I agree with Frances on removing/shifting the vegetarian aspect. Not just in terms of space, but also because I don't feel like this was something we really came to unity on. I'm vegetarian and would be quite happy if everyone was, all the time. I think it'd be really good to raise the sustainability implications of meat eating. I'd also support asking people coming to Quaker events to personally consider whether as a matter of conscience they might choose to eat vegetarian for the duration of the event. I wouldn't support asking that all Quaker events become completely vegetarian. This just doesn't feel to me like the best way to win people's hearts and minds on this issue. (05/19/07)

Julian I feel more comfortable with the wording re the vegetarian thing now. I'd still be in favor of removing the last sentence "Not only would this addresses [sic] the ecological footprint but also supports our testimony to simplicity (and reduces the stress for the cooks!)." I don't know that we've really thought through the tying it into simplicity thing fully, and I know that the last bit about stress for the cooks doesn't represent every cook's view. I'm quite keen to help with an article about the impact of a vegetarian diet on an ecological footprint. It's a big part of why I'm a vegetarian. I'm also curious about why some of the overseas carbon footprint calculators have veg/meat as an impact factor, when the NZ one doesn't. I'm meeting with the carboNZero people this week (as I'm doing some strategy work for them), so I'll ask them, and do a bit more research about the whole topic. (05/19/07)

thomas i think this is really well written: i also agree with the julian re: losing the last sentence from the vegeterian sentence. choice. (05/19/07)

Frances For the purposes of reducing word count, I wonder whether the whole of the vegetarian paragraph ("In our exploration of...") could come out? Don't panic... perhaps it could be a separate item in the newsletter, like a feature box 'More ideas YFs want to talk about' etc on a different page. (I'm not saying the idea gets withdrawn, just the text.) As far as I can see, everything else we talk about is much more integrated within the whole document, and this one sort of pops up out of the blue. This way we might get to keep all our words, just in different places perhaps? (05/18/07)

anna d OK, version 3 is now above... I've slightly revised the vegetarian paragraph and we're now comfortably within the 650 word limit for a full page (622). Does anyone have any further comments? I'd like to think we could follow up with a fuller article specifically on the impact of a vegetarian diet on an ecological footprint - any volunteers to write it??? (05/19/07)


Friday, 20 April 2007

YF Camp 2007 Epistle

To Friends Everywhere,

 

Tënä koutou, tënä koutou, tënä koutou katoa,

 

Fifty two Young Friends and three Very Young Friends gathered at the Quaker Settlement in Wanganui for six days over Easter. The theme for the camp (YF: The Future) encompassed both our focus on sustainability and discussions about our future within Aotearoa New Zealand Yearly Meeting. A workshop on the second day gave us an introduction to ideas around climate change and we found we had many ways of understanding our relationship with the Earth. Through a further session and time spent in silence, particularly during an epilogue on the last night, we were able to delve deeper into what these concerns mean to us as Quakers. Consideration of the Minute we brought to Yearly Meeting last year and reports from participants at a number of recent international Gatherings furthered our investigation of our place within the wider Quaker community.

 

Young Friends had further discussion around last year’s decision to become ‘Aotearoa New Zealand Young Friend’s Meeting’. A long and intense Meeting for Business allowed us to make some progress towards clarifying our thoughts and intentions in formalising our structure, but we are aware we have only just begun to explore this issue. We were grateful for the presence of two Australian YFs and several people with links to Britain Young Friends General Meeting who contributed valuable wisdom and information about YF structures in other parts of the world.

 

Our fantastic Bridget (McKendry) produced some of the most amazing food ever eaten at a YF camp, with particular assistance from Suzanna Remmerswaal, Alex Simpson and Richard Mottram. We enjoyed spending time with the settlers at a shared meal on the first night, and thank them for sharing this special place with us. The service component of this year’s camp was spent working around the Settlement. A great deal of effort went to digging out a giant Pampas as well as weeding, pruning, clearing and cleaning. The collective achievement was satisfying, and joined other traditional activities (such as large-scale sing-a-longs, games of soccer, and wrestling competitors in the kissing game) in helping us re-form our special relationships with people who are geographically spread. We are once again moved by the beauty of meeting together and sharing in so many ways.

 

Arohanui,

 

Sarah Tailby, Hannah Newport, Chris Hall, Leith Pugmire, Thomas Owen, Marion Leighton, Anna Dunford, Ria Pugmire and Thomas Watts (YF 2007 Epistle Committee).

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Anna D great work guys - don't think my name should be up there though as I didn't do any of it!!! At least I don't think I did - unless Sarah was taking notes on the journey home... (04/22/07)

Avon Awesome - thanks guys :) (04/22/07)


Saturday, 14 April 2007

YF Business Meeting Minutes

Minutes from the Young Friends Meeting For Worship For Business, held at the Quaker Settlement in Wanganui, 9th April 2007.

 

Present: Anna Dunford, Avon  Lookmire, Ben Watts, Charlotte Gordon, Chris Hall, Chris Jacques, Craig Scott, Daniel Morris, Dominic Remmerswaal, Grace, Hannah Chapman-Searle, Hannah Newport, James Bradley, Jeremy List, Jesse Watts, Jimmy Green, Joanne Hall, Joe Beautrais, John Graham, Julian Carver, Karl Snowden, Kate Harrison-Price, Leith Pugmire, Marion Leighton, Miriam Tailby, Rhea Lewthwaite, Ria Pugmire, Richard Evens, Richard Motram, Richard Wort, Ross Hebden, Ryan Scott, Sallie Culy, Sarah Tailby, Simon Lookmire, Suzanna Remmerswaal, Thomas Owen, Thomas Watts.

 

1.      Thomas started by welcoming everybody to the meeting including our international travelers Grace (the Australian YM representative), Hannah Chapman-Searle, also from Australia, and Richard Evens from the UK.

2.      The following people nominated themselves for writing the camp epistle:
They will attempt to capture the workings of the spirit at the camp: Hannah Newport, Sarah Tailby, Chris Hall, Leith Pugmire and Sallie Culy.

3.      We approve of the idea of having a gathering after Summer Gathering on Waiheke at the Friends House for 4 days. The camp will not be an official YF gathering, but will be aimed at Young Friends.    

4.      We discussed the location of the 2008 Young Friends camp. The camp will be organised by Avon Lookmire, Leith Pugmire, Charlotte Gordon, Ben Watts, Jeremy List, Chris Hall, Hannah Newport and Joanne Hall in the region around Palmerston North and Wellington. We ask that the organizers investigate the possible use of local marae and adhere to the proposed camp guidelines on sustainability and simplicity.

5.      We have discussed the possible structures of the Aotearoa Young Friends Meeting. We have agreed that we would envisage the following:

·        A Young Friends bank account and subsequent responsibility for the administration of Young Friends finances through our treasurer and Young Friends committee.  

·        Clear and established communications channels with YM.

·        Service by young Friends on Yearly Meeting committees and the ability to nominate YFs for these roles. We note that Australian Yearly Meeting makes spaces available for Young Friends on YM committees.    

·        Ability to comment as a group on Yearly Meeting documents.

·        For Aotearoa New Zealand Young Friends Meeting to have the same capacity as a monthly meeting to present to Yearly Meeting a list of Young Friend attenders wishing to participate at Yearly Meeting. 

While we are continuing to learn from the Australian and British structures, we are still committed to defining a structure that will work for us as the Aotearoa New Zealand Young Friends Meeting. 

 

6.      We nominate the following people as possible representatives to attend Australian Yearly Meeting and Young Friends camp in 2008: Hannah Newport, Chris Hall, Joanne Hall, Sallie Culy, Melody Ireland. We will continue to send one YF representative to these events, but encourage other New Zealand YFs to attend.

7.      We approve the nomination of Hannah Newport as YF representative to QPSANZ

8.      We were informed of the intention to organize a young friends gathering in association with the Asia West Pacific Section in Bhopal in 2008.

YF’s were invited to help with organizing of the event, in particular to help with fundraising. We feel that YF representatives nominated to attend this event should have been involved with the organization of the event.

The following people have indicated willingness to help organize the event: Ben Watts, Charlotte Gordon, Suzanna Remmerswaal, Kate Harrison Price, Chris Jacques, Chris Hall, Jeremy List, Jimmy Green, Ria Pugmire, Joanne Hall, Hannah Newport, Thomas Watts, Anna Fay, Thomas Owen

The following people have expressed interest in attending the event: Ben Watts, Charlotte Gordon, Suzanna Remmerswaal, Chris Jacques, Chris Hall, Jeremy List, Jimmy Green, Ria Pugmire, Joanne Hall, Thomas Watts, Anna Fay

We would also like to financially support young friends from other nations in our section to attend this event. More information will be circulated in the future about the event and opportunities for YFs to help.

9.      We discussed the term of office for the Young Friends committee. Positions on the YF committee will be held for two years. Two of the current office holders will stay on for an extra year to ensure continuity.

Julian Carver has indicated that he intends to step down from the committee and the communications role following YF camp 2008.

The current committee roles are:

Thomas Watts (YF clerk)

Ben Watts (Co-clerk)

Julian Carver (YF communications and outreach, YF camp coordinator)

Jimmy Green (Treasurer)

10.  To facilitate closer ties with the international quaker community, we establish the position of international liaison officer. This involves gathering communications from international young friends and sharing them with Young Friends in New Zealand . It also involves informing Young Friends from New Zealand traveling abroad.of opportunities to attend Quaker events on their travels. Thomas Owen has agreed to take on this role for two years.

11.  We considered the nominations process for YF roles including those on the YF committee, representatives to international events, and YF representatives on YM committees. We agree to retain the status quo where the YF committee facilitates the YF nominations process. In addition, where there are potential conflicts of interest in nominations, those people will be replaced in that nominations discussion by another YF.

We support Julian Carver in accepting his recent nomination to Yearly Meeting nominations committee.

12.  We had lengthy discussions on climate change and sustainability. We have established conveners to carry this issue forward. These are Thomas Owen and Thomas Watts. We have established sustainability guidelines for future YF camps.  We ask the clerk to send the following minute to the Yearly Meeting Clerk.

13.  To Yearly Meeting, we strongly advocate for, and offer our assistance to the formation of an Aoteoroa NZ Testimony to Sustainability and the Earth. We also call for the development of YM policies on sustainable codes and practices in Quaker building, gatherings and events.  We ask that time be allocated to these issues at Yearly Meeting 2007.  

14.  Simon and Avon Lookmire spoke of their experiences as the New Zealand Yearly Meeting representatives to Australian YM and YF. They were supported by Grace and Hannah from Australian YM.

15.  Jimmy Green gave us report from his time on the board of WEST and Thomas Owen spoke about his new position on STAC, the     for the money, and opportunities for YFs

16.  YFs were informed that Yearly Meeting dates are 6-8th of July in Whanganui and were encouraged to attend.

17.  YFs were informed that Junior Young Friends Camp dates are 24-30th September in Christchurch.and YFs were encouraged to attend as leaders. 

18.  YFs were informed that Summer Gathering dates are 29th December to 5th January at Chosen Valley in Auckland and were encouraged to attend.

 

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Monday, 02 April 2007

YF Business

Agenda for the Business Meeting at YF camp (5th-10th April) 
 

Reports: (to be held Friday night 6th) 

  • Simon, Avon and Rowan Lookmire: Australian Young Friends Camp and Australian Yearly Meeting.
  • Jimmy Green: WEST.
  • Thomas Owen: STAC
  • YF Committee: Report back on Yearly Meeting 2006.

 'The Minute': (to be held Saturday morning 7th) 

  1. Reading of 'The Minute'.
  2. Reading of the Yearly Meeting YF minute.
  3. Structure of Aotearoa Young Friends Meeting (discussion).
  4. Elders and/or Overseers within YFs (discussion).
  5. Finance - fund raising, managing the money, spending the money (discussion)

NB. This session will involve discussions in small groups, and as a whole group rather than being done as a Meeting for Worship for Business. The object is to prepare us for the business meeting rather than to make any decisions on the above.  

Main business meeting: (to held Monday morning 9th) 

1. Housekeeping: 

  • Inform YFs that Yearly Meeting dates are 6-8th of July in Whanganui. Encourage attendance.
  • Inform YFs that Junior Young Friends Camp dates are 24-30th September in Christchurch. Encourage attendance of YFs as leaders. 
  • Inform YFs that Summer Gathering dates are 29th December to 5th January at Chosen Valley in Auckland. Encourage attendance.
  • Possibility of after gathering on Waiheke Island: needs to be discussed.
  • YF Camp 2008: Where will it be?

2. Aotearoa Young Friends Meeting: 

  1. Structure of Aotearoa Young Friends Meeting
  2. Whether to have Elders and/or Overseers within YFs.
  3. Finance:
    1. fund raising
    2. how to manage the money (i.e having our own bank account)
    3. what we should spend our money on
  4. Nominations – how we do nominations, e.g. YF Committee acting as the YF nominations committee, or doing it separately
  5. Reporting to Yearly Meeting on YF Structure

 3. Nominations for 2007/2008 : 

  1. Invite nominations for YF representative to Australian Young Friends Camp and Yearly Meeting.
  2. Approve nomination of Hannah Newport as YF representative to QPSANZ
  3. YF Committee:
    1. Proposal that YF committee will remain the same. Positions will be reviewed next YF camp where we will encourage two people to step down and two new people to replace them. The remaining two members will have their positions reviewed again at YF 2009, thus retaining institutional knowledge.
    2. Nominations for any new roles (International Liaison, Overseers etc)

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Sunday, 04 March 2007

Wellington YFs for March

Wellington Young Friends (SOYFA). Sunday 11 March, at the Quaker Centre, Moncrieff Street, Mount Victoria.

6 pm for meeting for worship, followed by a shared supper and then a session led by Anna Dunford about being a resident friend. There are many opportunities around the world for being a resident friend and it is something often done by young people wishing to explore the world and their faith.

All welcome! See you 6pm and bring food to share!

Frances

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Sunday, 25 February 2007

Spirituality session at YF Camp

Ok, given this has somewhat dominated grouphug for the last few days here is what has happened so far, feel free to continue the discussion using the comments!!!

Subject: Re: [group hug] YF Camp Sessions
Date: Fri, 16 Feb 2007 11:02:03 +1300

I'd like to do a session on Quaker Spirituality.

Along with the focus on YF structure, climate change and the work we do out in the world, I think it's important to look at how we focus inwardly, how our spiritual journeys inform our outward actions.

Just off the top of my head this could include things like:

  • how our approaches to goals, priorities and life direction are supported by our spiritual life
  • how we reconcile science and spirituality for ourselves in this post-modern world
  • what an appropriate spiritual practice might be for each of us individually in our busy lives and personal journeys

This would be a fairly introspective session rather than a lot of intellectual debate. It probably won't involve chanting, candles or kaftans, but would include some silence and self reflection.

Depending on time and enthusiasm this could be a main session or an interest group.

Anyone keen to help let me know by direct email, anyone who doesn't like the idea and thinks it's far too religious let me know directly, or via grouphug.

Julian

Subject: [group hug] Spirituality (or lack there of) at YF :)

Date: Wed, 21 Feb 2007 04:03:57 GMT

Ahh Julian,

I know you're just waiting for this so I'm gonna surprise you lol. By all means have your crazy religious session (even the post modernism isn't enough to win me over tho)!

At the World Gathering we did this kind of thing in a 'worship sharing' format, which is like a normal Meeting except that each person speaks (if they want to) just once at some point during the silence. This rules out the possibility of discussion fairly effectively and encourages

each person to add their bit of wisdom. My experience of worship sharing was that it was also very moving as there is very much a personal focus (i.e. you speak YOUR truth, don't try and generalise to everybody else).

Is there any chance we could come up with a more inclusive title for the session tho? Something without any reference to religion or spirituality? Words like 'beliefs' or 'values' spring to mind. Perhaps something about living them

:p

Arohanui,

Leith

Posted Justin Flitter Date: Thu, 22 Feb 2007 08:35:01 +1300 (NZDT)

Morning all

Perhaps its being born on the same day of the year or something but I totally agree with leith's concept. I dont feel im a very religious person yet (i hope) my faith guides my actions and beleifs. Sharing those and hearing about how others action their faith in a modern society is interesting and motivating. The meeting for worship setting with structured topic and formate is a great idea.

Marion here,

Well this has set the cat among the pigeons....

Of course Julian asked those who agreed to contact him directly, so it hasn't been out there on grouphug....

I also like the idea of some worship sharing, but I think it should be complimented by maybe an introduction about Quakers and spirituality and maybe some discussion also. Worship sharing works well in place of discussion or ministry, as it actively encourages people to speak but also allows them to speak into silence and not have their views challenged or rubbished.

Speaking 'our' truth rather than generalising is a difficult skill to  master. It comes not only from learning to speak from an 'I' position, but also from learning to put aside our ego and listening for 'the' truth. It's not just about opinion or even just about sharing our experience. It's about listening carefully to others, and to ourselves and trying to discern where the spirit moves in and amongst all of us. I don't think it's something that comes easily, or will be there all the time, and one of the good reasons for doing worship sharing is to keep practising and to be ready and open when the spirit does move.

It is also called 'worship' sharing - which suggests we are worshipping something..... whether that is god, light, spirit, that which is beyond us, that which is within us or whatever, it is not just us espousing our opinion or ego. One of the commonest hurdles in ministry in meeting for worship is getting beyond ego and reaching for something else. It is often not achieved and I think we have all sat through meetings like this. I don't think we're looking for this perfect ideal to be there all the time, but we are

searching for it and being open to it.

I would be disappointed if we removed the word 'spirituality' from any title as we are after all Quakers, and not a bunch of people who get together just because we share common values. Having a faith (whether it is tied to religion or not) involves believing in something for which there is no proof... for me this is my spirituality. I have grown over the years from a fairly athiest stance to one which is a little more forgiving of the unknown, and I think one of the reasons it was able to grow was by being around people who used words which were uncomfortable for me but talked about them in a way that was comfortable - this allowed for me to discuss them with people and grow (slowly) myself.

Quakers are a religious body and most have a faith. I think it is special that we can talk about and work with lots of different views especially among young people as we start our own search, but to get rid of any reference to the spirit removes some of the core values that Quakers worldwide are bound together by. If the only thing that binds us is tolerance then I think we run the risk of watering down Quakerism and never striving for the high ideals which attracted me in the first place.

There is definately a place for atheism within Quakerism, but it is within, and for me I don't want to lose the other stuff as well.

However, I also think it's wonderful that these discussions are going on.... does that mean us YF's are leading the way in philosophic and ecclesiastic discussion among NZ Friends.....

Lots of love to you all

Marion

Posted 23 Feb 2007 21:42 by Chris Gourlie

Thank you Marion :)

Posted 25 Feb 2007 18:26 by  Joanne Hall

well it sounds like we have a session in any case:)

perhaps it could start with some passages read from the grey book of nz quaker writings, or similar text, then could move to worship sharing, ending with some discussion. ?

Posted 26 Feb 2007 08:29 by Julian Carver (short link)

“Do we, in Friends, spend so much time leaning over backwards to shun anything that smacks of ‘doctrine’ that we leave our children without a basis for a living faith?” Norman Bennett 1970 (quote from the back cover of Quaker Faith & Practice in Aoteoroa).

To me, each person’s journey inward is unique. The path to truly knowing ourselves, to connecting with all that exists, is totally individual, and completely right. It is very difficult to convey in words, it can really only be experienced directly. But the path can be hard and confusing, so we share it with others in faith communities to learn from and support each other in those things that are eternal.

Thank you all for the feedback on the session on spirituality, both on grouphug, and directly (of which there has been waaayyy more than I expected). There seems to be a strong desire to have a session on spirituality, and if we're going to do so, to call a "spade a spade". I think it's really important that we can accept and include everybody's views and experiences. I also think that if we become so politically correct that we can't use the term 'spirituality' at a Quaker gathering, we risk losing that which really defines us as a community. There was a strong sense in your responses that YF camp should be a place where it's safe and comfortable to talk about what god/spirit/light means to us in a mystical sense rather than an intellectual one, and that this was quite different to exploring values and beliefs.

Marion has offered to help me plan the session, and I've asked Leith to review the plan to make sure we're being as inclusive of atheist/agnostic/non-theist views as possible, and that we're not risking the majority being too influential on those who are less confident about their faith/beliefs.

If anyone else would like to help plan the session please let me know directly. The suggestions so far on worship sharing, readings, and some discussion sound great, and any other ideas about format and methods are most welcome, so please do send them to Marion or I.

If there is anyone else who is challenged or really feels uncomfortable about us using the term 'spirtuality' in the title of the session, please do let me know.

I look forward to seeing you all at YF.

 

Julian

Posted 26 Feb 2007 11:44 by Leith Pugmire (short link)

Or do we, as Friends, simply find the whole 'no creed or doctrine' thing pretty hard to live up to, and so make use of rhetoric devices (like Norman Bennet's quote) that serve to let us off the hook? lol

Excuse the following social constructionist analysis Julian :) I know it will just make you laugh.

The assumption I see as underlying these words:

"if we become so politically  correct that we can't use the  term 'spirituality' at a Quaker gathering,  we risk losing  that which really defines us as a community"

is that spirituality is something that defines as a community. The use of the term 'politically correct' is pretty effective at forstalling argument because, in mainstream New Zealand being 'politically correct' has fallen very much out of favour. Similarly, the suggestion that the alternative is to avoid using the term spirituality at a Quaker gathering makes objections seem mean-spirited and intolerant. (please note that this is an analysis of the language, not of Julian's intentions . . . although he's certainly wily enough to have forseen the consequences of the discourses he draws on :p)

So . . . a few clarifications and a further plea . . .

My experience at the World Gathering convinced me that there are NO beliefs, traditions, or pratices that are 'essential' or 'eternal' or 'universal' within Quakerism. Even the term 'Quaker' is contested (as are aspects of pacifism, process issues, religious beliefs, and virtually every piece of terminology you can think of). My evidence for this comes from discussions where one element of Quakerism after another would be brought forward as something which binds us all together, and then challanged by somebody who felt strongly that this didn't 'fit' with their version/path/religion/spirituality/philosophy/whatever. It strikes me that this is not really surprising when you consider that Quakerism emerged out of a challange to the (then) orthodoxy of early Catholocism.

I returned from the World Gathering with the uncomfortable feeling that, because of my experiences, it falls to me to speak up on this issue. Because otherwise, the small voices of Quakerism will be drowned out or squashed or lost when they are driven away by the well-intentioned tide of Friends who seem able to imply some versions of Quakerism are wrong while simultaneously proclaiming we have no doctrine/creed. At times this process can be subtle, as when terms like 'spirituality' are prioritised at the group (rather than individual) level simply because a majority are comfortable with the term. Mostly this is down unintentionally, with little thought for how different words can have strong and very personal meanings for different people. Nevertheless, this is a kind of generalising that does privilege some voices over others.

I would like to gently challange the idea that spirituality is something that defines us as a Quaker community. To make this claim disregards the legitimacy of Quakerisms that are not, even a little bit, spiritual. As an atheist and non-spiritual Young Friend I would like to clarify that my objection is not to spirituality in general, but simply to using it in the title of a session that should be equally accessible to all, and that for me and others will have nothing to do with spirituality. I have no objection to anybody else using the term, and I happily acknowledge that for many of you the word is important and appropriate. I look forward to hearing of your spiritual journeys during the session :) However, I am deeply concerned that for other non-spiritual Quakers, this is one more in a long line of instances when their personal beliefs have been demeaned within groups that should be safe for everyone. I would like to think that ANY word which might potentially have a negative effect on our diversity and open discussion could be avoided simply on those grounds. What does it matter if we end up leaving the session nameless, or calling it 'an exploration' or 'the discussion' if that will enable the discussion itself to take place?

So, for me this is very much about calling a spade a spade. My Quakerism is not about spirituality, and I'm uncomfortable when this is implied. Certainly our discussion is likely to involve spirituality, but let's have a title that acknowledges alternatives. For me this is about living our tolerance, and valuing people over words. We can all save up our own special words to use when speaking our personal truth during the session. We each have wisdom to offer and aspects of Quakerism that we hold in trust, and if we are very very careful, we can support each other to share these gifts.

Arohanui,

Leith

  p.s. oh, and my plea is this: please don't ever let anybody convince you that you haven't the right to your view. Nobody has the ultimate Truth.

Posted 26 Feb 2007 17:43 by Anna Dunford (short link)

Kia ora e hoa ma

My understanding of a sesison on spirituality at YF Camp was that it would be a chance for those interested in disussing this, in whatever format, to do so. This is in the same way as a session might be held on environmentalism & being carbon neutral, on rollerblading techniques or crocheting plastic bags. It would be for those for in which this is something they have an interest or leading to explore (or who are just too tired to leave the room when it starts...!).

My understanding is it is not an attempt to define Quakerism or whatever but a safe and comfortable environment where people can share and explore their spiritual journeys without feeling as though they are going to be laughed at or belittled for using words like G/god/de/ss, being led,  finding/seeking a calling, being held in the light, experiencing the love of Christ or whatever. There are precious few opportunities to do so outwith YFs and even within for most of us there are not many opportunities for a deep and semi/structured exploration of this.

Leith is right when she says there is nothing out there that unifies Quakers worldwide, that speaks to everyone's condition and experience of Quakerism. But what has been found from the experience of WGYF was that what we did have in common was a wish to listen, learn from each other and hold each other in love.

Given the evident amount of interest in this, and debate it has caused, rather than clogging up everyones inboxes can we maybes move over to the blog site? I'm happy to start cutting and pasting the emails so far there so we don't (heaven or anywhere else forbid!) end up starting it all over from scratch again!

It's at http://netmail.co.nz/blogs/youngfriends/ in case any of you don't know or have forgotten!

love & hugs Anna

(and so I have!!! Sorry about the random formatting, I've tried, can anyone fix it?)

 ps wee historical note - it was the Church of England that the early Friends were dissenting against mainly - the Catholics weren't exactly popular at the time eitherAll yours....

 

God @ 22:58 PM   Add Comment

anna d latest addition to the discussion...

I am moved to put forward the title "The session previously known as Spirituality"...

But seriously, I can't claim to have read all the emails, but I'm kind of flummoxed (experimental spelling) as to why we can't just call the session something else, so that we can have these wonderful discussions in an environment where everyone feels welcome?

What's the big deal here?

And I don't aim that question at Leith (I've had enough long discussions with her to know what her big deal is) - I am interested in the strong responses of those who consider it a big deal to simply change a name to leave room for different viewpoints...

Absolutely the session should go forward (we all seem to agree there), it's just a matter of a name. And it does matter to those who are excluded. For example, how does the "new mothers' coffee group" or "paid maternity leave" feel to the fulltime dad? It is just a word, but when you want to be involved and it excludes you, it excludes you.

Arohanui, Avon :) (02/26/07)

anna d (ta for fixing my dodgy cut n pasting Fran! )

Ok, here's Quentin's tuppenceworth...

Kia ora Leith

It's no good I just cannot resist a reply to your email/s, even though I am not convinced if we get stuck into a binary form of discussion, we are unlikely to go anywhere new. One group will thing they are right and the other will think they are right and rehash the same arguments.

Is possible to have a passionate argument without using rhetorical devices?

"it falls to me to speak up on this issue. Because otherwise, the small voices of Quakerism will be drowned out or squashed or lost when they are driven away by the well-intentioned tide of Friends" - this seems to pit the lone true voice against the uninformed majority.

I wonder if one of the differences between the World Gathering and Young Friends is that it could be possible to come to a local defined set of principles and language use that has meaning. The group is not so large and because we live in community (virtual or otherwise) it might be possible to construct that reality. It would be helpful to ask - Who does or does not have voice in this? Who does or does not have power? How does the group come to know things collectively (epistemology?).

I wonder if one one way forward might be to use Quaker process - be it a Threshing meeting, Meeting for Clearness or otherwise. In this way it might be possible to come to "know" in George Foxes words "experimentally". Is it possible for YFs to meet, leave aside their egos and try and discern something that is beyond themselves (a not-knowing stance) ? How exciting is that! In my experience this is not a group norming form of consensus. One person might be blessed with the "truth" and the group will come to know this through discernment. In my experience this has been different from knowing intellectually or emotionally but a spiritual kind of knowing for want of another word. It might be that YFs do come to discern that use of words such as God, Quaker etc are no longer helpful in the way you have been moved to witness. Then it could be taken to another forum to see if other Friends hear this "truth" and finally to Yearly Meeting. This does seem like a long process but from my reading of Quaker history, John Woolman did take 100 years to patiently persuade Friends and others to give up slavery.

OK, I have successful procrastinated from my Te reo Maori homework

Ka kite ano

Quentin (02/26/07)


Sunday, 19 November 2006

JYF Epistle

Junior Young Friends Camp 2006

Totoranui, Golden Bay, South Island

Even with two JYF camps already under many of our belts most people who attended the camp could not deny that the weaving of activities and location with the theme was perhaps the tightest merging possible. In an isolated environment like Totoranui two hours away from any convenient store or cellular telephone reception, people were forced sometimes unwillfully to engage with their immediate surroundings and do as the theme suggested “more with less” . The outdoor activities were mostly generated by the imagination of Albie Burgers who pulled many people out of their immediate comfort zones. Be it kayaking in the open sea, planting 120 trees or doing a 15-minute ropewalk through the bush without the use of our eyes ignited the glorious spirit of adventure.

By providing the camp with a highly relevant theme and compiling people that usually would never have the chance to meet, people ended up relishing the differences from their usual company. With such an accepting environment many people were able to be themselves and express their own opinions to accepting and open minded listeners. This ranged from highly scripted and predictable to highly intellectual and politically aware discussion. When compared to other camps, Totoranui was far less structured which was a welcomed contrast to the previous year.

The lush native bush, great golden sands and beautiful blue sea surrounding our location was certainly inspiring to many environmental activists and was aided by the flamboyant guest speaker Green MP Mike Ward sharing his ideals. But perhaps more inspiring was Albie Burgers’ demonstrating simple yet effective and bizarrely cheap methods through his inventions to save electricity in the realm of solar heating.

Without any interruptions from combustion vehicles or other creators of unwanted distractions, Quaker silences were actually… silent. Many people took this opportunity to gather their thoughts and emotions, this process aided people by supplying them with the courage and determination to express themselves in whatever way they saw fit.

Overall most people would be hard pressed to argue that JYF didn’t make them a more complete, kinder and when all was said and done, a better person. Hopefully.

(posted by Anna, but written, as far as I know, by Jesse & Johnny! Sorry it's taken me so long to put up...)

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